Funerals are a big deal in New Orleans and our family was no exception. Though we didn’t send our beloveds off with a jazz funeral and a brass band, we did put out quite a spread to keep the mourners sated. I would sit through the eulogy, the whole time keeping my fingers crossed that I’d meet up with banana pudding at the post-service buffet table at one of the cousin’s houses. I’d walk into the gathering and within minutes I’d be scanning the dessert table-nine out often times it was there-a giant bowl of canary yellow and banana-flavored righteousness beckoning to be pillaged.

Sometimes it was layered with vanilla wafers like a parfait. Sometimes the cookies were half sunken into the abyss. Sometimes there were bananas and sometimes there weren’t. I’d always scoop out a giant serving with more than my fair share of cookies. Now that I’m grown, I like my banana pudding flavored with banana liqueur and topped with a vanilla-wafer and cinnamon-tossed crumb topping. The topping always stays crisp and provides an amazing contrast to the soft-tender bite of the chopped bananas and the silkiness of the pudding. It’s humble and homey but just different enough from the traditional version that I feel good about serving it in a more sophisticated setting. Click for recipe